Getting what you want in your private life doesn’t mean you need to divert your attention away from your successful career.
You know what you want, or what has not worked for in previous relationships
= Your values
You remember how good it felt to be in a happy relationship, and if this is something you have not yet experienced, wouldn’t you want to?
= Your motivation
Now it’s about setting a future goal that has enough values to motivate you.
= Your drive